UPDATE tabele SET costam=costam.'*costam_nowe' WHERE cosinnego='cosinnego'
costam nowe => dokleja do costam łancuch znaków "*costam_nowe"
UPDATE tabele SET costam=IF(costam='') costam_nowe else costam.'*costam_nowe' WHERE cosinnego='cosinnego'
UPDATE tabele SET costam=CONCAT(costam,'costam_nowe') WHERE LENGTH(cosinnego) < 1
UPDATE tabele SET costam=CONCAT(costam,'costam_nowe') WHERE cosinnego IS NULL